Holding onto Anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.Buddha
With Anger, it is not the fact that one gets angry; it is how one handles that Anger.
What is Grief? It is the natural expression of Love for the person that has died. It is a Normal response to the death of a loved one. It is an Emotional, Physical, and, Spiritual reaction to the death of a loved one.
Grieving is a Process. The Process of Grieving requires Time, Patience, Courage, and, Support. The Process encompasses Shock, Suffering, Sadness, Anger, and, Recovery.
The Purpose of Counseling is Not to save your marriage. Only You can do this. Counseling will help you figure out what went wrong and How To Fix It.
Marital/Relationship Issues usually combines issues of Communication, Alienation of Affection, or some type of Threat to the Relationship. These feelings could include Feeling Unloved, Feeling Betrayed, Feeling Lonely, Feeling Angry, or, Feeling Disrepected.